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Of course, we can’t predict exactly how your life will change after losing 100, 150 or 200+ pounds. The old adage, “everyone is an individual” is wise and true! We can ASSURE you that your life WILL change and the changes are very likely to be quite dramatic! Over the last 2 years that we have monitored our patients, we find some of the major changes to be:
Improved physical status (for example, blood pressure, blood sugar and respiratory regulation), more energy, less body aches and pains, improved sleeping, improved psychological status, including decreased depression, improved self-esteem, improved social skills, more confidence and realistic hope for the future, Changes in relationships, including family, love relationships, friends and co-workers.
In general these changes are positive and exciting. They are also demanding. In order to succeed in our program, patients must really put
their own health care choices first. This is often a dramatic change for our patients, since many have felt depressed and hopeless and have
given their own lives the lowest priority. Our patients have to learn to make assertive, healthy decisions for themselves, even when these
decisions upset their loved ones. For example, they may choose to go on their exercise walk instead of sitting down and eating with others, OR
they may have to deal with their spouse’s jealousy or discomfort when they become increasingly attractive and independent.
Body Image: Patients undergo incredible changes in how they feel about and see their bodies. Losing 100 or more pounds creates drastic changes
in body size, appearance, and related areas such as dressing choices and feelings of being attractive and sexy. Accepting normal body image
is sometimes a major challenge for obesity surgery patients. Even though wearing a size 8 dress may be a lifetime goal, some patients require
some adjustment time to accept this reality, sometimes still “feeling fat”, or worrying that they will gain back the weight.
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